Life is unpredictable, and there are times when we are thrown into unexpected situations that leave us feeling disoriented and unsure of ourselves. These events can be anything from the loss of a loved one, a divorce, a serious illness, or a major life transition, such as graduating from college or starting a new job.
An ex-colleague who was posting wonderful videos of his daughters singing, today revealed his wife’s cancer diagnosis and subsequent struggle with it. You would never know what someone is going through by seeing their social media footprint. Real lives are less colorful and much greyer. But we only see what we see, it also probably changed him as a person, as per his post he got a new perspective on life.
Last week my sis in law went through a major accident where the car rolled over many times. Thankfully by the grace of god, the kids and her were alright. It changed her perspective and mine as well. I would now want to keep in sync with her more often. I do keep connect with most people as my view is that as human if we aren’t connected or helping each other, what is purpose of all the money and fame?
In conclusion, changing your perspective after a life-changing event is not an easy process, but it is a necessary one. By accepting your feelings, seeking support, reflecting on your life, focusing on the positive, and taking action, you can move forward and embrace the new opportunities that life presents. Remember, you have the strength and resilience to overcome any challenge that comes your way, and you are capable of creating a meaningful and fulfilling life, no matter what the circumstances.